Let’s fight against colour thieves! Let’s colour our days!
What is the impact of prayer in our daily life?
A faithful reader of this website (which is mainly about Christian spirituality) has recently challenged me to write something about prayer. First of all, I found myself to be very dry, without any inspiration.
Then, something happened. Something that was first very unpleasant. Something that left me with a painful feeling of being misunderstood, rejected and even despised. I suppose that each of us does experience from time to time feelings of not being considered while on administrative endeavours, or being ignored in time of trials, and from some who were thought to be close friends.
Those who know me well do notice that I often allow my face and my attitude to express my inside feelings, such a window-glass for a shop. Then, would a painful event occur, it becomes extremely difficult for me to remain cool, to do as if there was nothing at all, or as if all was well. The window-glass becomes suddenly stained with dark and cold colours. Those who know me best understand that this is not the best time to present a request.
There was a clever television advertisement for photographic products of a specific brand presenting its gadgets as ‘colour thieves’. This advertisement was presenting photographic activity as terrorism of a new kind: a snap and at once the person who has been photographed found himself or herself in black and white! The disastrous effects on the victims’ minds were a guarantee of the efficiency of the advertised products.
Our world, and much of the daily events that we are subjects of within it are offering numerous occasions to ‘steal our colours’: daily news do report about a graphic increase of catastrophes all over the world. Perhaps, a relative is suddenly ill of a grave disease, the cost of life increases in some worrying ways, we do not succeed to find a fulfilling job or very simply, we get older. For those who are not on the watch, sad colours take residence ‘behind the window-glass or our eyes’ as for the words of a popular singer.
And life is becoming a succession of sad events.
Boredom takes roots.
Our true colours disappear, and with them, enthusiasm, joy, energy or dynamism.
It remains fundamental for the well-being of a person to not only re-act when a painful situation occurs, but also, and most importantly, to act in order that the pain does not occur in the first place, or to limit as much as possible its extent. It is the difference which is sometimes made between a ‘reactive’ and a ‘proactive’ attitude.
The ‘reactive’ attitude is nothing but a reaction to the external pressures, for the person to be modified by it.
And the ‘proactive’ attitude is a projection of one’s personality into the environment so to modify it. Thus, the person chooses his or her own agendas.
It is a matter of fact and of nature that simply reacting to the environment is infinitely more difficult and energy draining than to imprint in it something of oneself. A definition of human fulfilment could be the capacity for a human being to project itself in its environment.
In other words, it is much more perilous and less productive to work at finding back one’s own colours when they faded away than to extend the best of self all around it.
Or as used to say a saint: ‘Where there is no Love, put some Love and then you will find Love’.
I understand prayer as a selected tool to allow us to keep our true colours, and even to find them back when they have been lost.
Because prayer draws at the very source of Love.
Indeed, through prayer, it becomes possible to relocate all our daily stories of our daily life within a much greater and contrasting colourful frame or context, which should contaminate our entire lives.
We are alive because somebody loves us!
Love has now a face which is spreading throughout the world!
The entire creation itself takes no rest to sing all the mercifulness of God!
The Good News are also about our colours which were once lost and which can now be found back!
May the encounters that we establish with the very forces of life, through prayer, allow us to find again our true colours,
And to continue the good fight against colours thieves!